Luke 12:49-56
With what’s going on in our world, it seems the last thing we need is a gospel text that encourages more division. This is not a reading that offers comfort. But hang with me here. Jesus did not have an evil twin or suddenly get a personality transplant. This is the same Jesus who reminded us that the two greatest commandments are to love God and love our neighbors as ourselves.
Jesus is frustrated, and he says as much, and if nothing else, this passage shows Jesus responding to stress in a very human way. He says he has work to do and he’s under incredible stress to complete it in the time he has left. Does that mean Jesus knew for sure he was going to be arrested and crucified? Maybe, or maybe it just means he knew the risks of putting love of God and love of neighbor first.
Which is Jesus’ point, here. Relentlessly loving God and neighbor is risky. In his words and actions, Jesus shows us that when he says love your neighbor, he means not just the neighbor who’s easy to love, but the neighbor who’s very hard to love. The one you’d rather not sit next to on the bus, or in the classroom. The one you don’t want for a colleague. The one you avoid at the family reunion. The one you hope won’t go to the polls in a presidential election. The one who sees the world entirely differently from the way you do, who believes different truths than you do. Love that neighbor, which includes working toward his well-being, even if it looks to you as though he’s doing everything he can to work against your well-being. Jesus shows us that loving your neighbor means questioning the religious, social, and economic status quo that undermines your neighbor’s safety and security. It means speaking the truth in love to that neighbor and doing the hard work of forgiveness and reconciliation with that neighbor. When Jesus talked about love and modeled it in his actions, that’s what love looks like.
That kind of love is risky. It doesn’t make people popular. We all can rattle off a long list of peacemakers and justice-lovers who loved their neighbors just this way and were killed or jailed for their efforts: Abraham Lincoln, Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr., Medgar Evers, Bobby Kennedy, Oscar Romero, Anwar al Sadat, Nelson Mandela, Harvey Milk, Yitzhak Rabin, Rachel Corrie, environmentalist Tim DeChristopher; and others whose names we’ll never know who resisted the Holocaust, fought for civil rights and thought women ought to have the vote.
Jesus wasn’t saying that he wants people to turn against each other. He’s saying that if people follow him, really follow him, they can count on offending someone, even someone close, even someone they love. This was certainly true for Jesus’ original audience. I wonder: Is it any less true for us? How would our family and friends and co-workers react if we really acted like Jesus did? How would our government act; how would ICE agents or the National Guard act? What Jesus is concerned with here is the persecution, if you will, not of people who choose one faith over another but of people who strive to love God and neighbor.
Sometimes when people see someone committed to doing what’s right, they feel critiqued, even if that’s not the point at all. What concerns Jesus is this: When anyone has the nerve to look at the way things are and say, “This isn’t right,” it divides people. “This isn’t right” challenges the status quo. Those who benefit from the status quo will fight tooth and nail to oppose anyone who tries to change things. Jesus sums up his frustration by noting that people can look at the clouds and predict the weather, but they can’t see the way things are here and now. They can’t look at what’s going on around them and “interpret the present.” Why? Because they are satisfied with the way things are right now and don’t want to change.
What are we to do, then, in order to interpret the present faithfully?
It is hard to look at the broken and hurting world around us and see in the hurt and the brokenness a call that something has to change – that we might just have to change. It can seem overwhelming but maybe we just start by mending a little corner of the world, our tiny corner. Anne Lamott uses the metaphor of stitching: “You start wherever you can. You see a great need, so you thread a needle, you tie a knot in your thread. You find one place in the cloth through which to take one stitch, one simple stitch, nothing fancy, just one that’s strong and true.”
We mend what we can. If households are not to be divided, mother against daughter, father against son, it will be because, through the grace of God, we reach across those divides instead of accepting them as insurmountable, and take small steps, make small stitches.
© Joanne Whitt 2025 all rights reserved.
Resources:
Anne Lamott, Stitches: A Handbook on Meaning, Hope and Repair (New York: Riverhead Books, 2013).